The Wedding Music You Didn’t Know You Needed
When planning your wedding, it’s easy to focus on flowers, food and photography, there is another detail that has the power to truly shape the atmosphere of your day, it’s the music. The right soundtrack creates memories that last forever, whether it’s the hush before you walk down the aisle, the relaxed vibe of your drinks reception, or a packed dance floor at midnight.
As a wedding planner, I always encourage couples to think carefully about their wedding music choices. To help, I asked Tim from Boujee Music, one of the UK’s leading wedding entertainment companies to share his expert advice.
Why Live Wedding Music Creates Magic
Tim sums it up perfectly: “A song played live hits you differently, there’s a buzz in the room everyone can feel.”
A live wedding band brings energy, interaction and chemistry you simply can’t get from a playlist. From gospel choirs lifting the roof to soulful duos adding intimacy, live music makes each moment feel unforgettable.
Ceremony Music: Walking Down the Aisle in Style
Your wedding ceremony music sets the tone for the whole day. Depending on your style and venue, you could choose:
Classy and elegant: a string quartet (with modern twists)
Romantic and intimate: vocals with piano or a singing guitarist
Traditional and grand: church choir and organist
Joyful and uplifting: a gospel choir
If you’re undecided, here are three timeless aisle songs Tim recommends:
Best Part – Daniel Caesar ft. H.E.R. (warm, modern, soulful)
Heaven (Candlelight Mix) – DJ Sammy ft. Yanou & Do (gentle, cinematic)
Just the Way You Are - Billy Joel (classic and heartfelt)
Reception Music: Filling the Dance Floor
A common misconception is that all wedding bands are the same. In reality, it’s not just about the set list it’s about stagecraft, energy and interaction. As Tim says: “That’s what turns a good night into the best night of your life.”
Boujee Music’s approach ensures every generation is catered for:
Cross-generational anthems everyone knows from films and adverts
A mix of eras so no guest waits long for a favourite tune
Medleys and mash-ups that keep the energy high
Some underrated dance floor fillers include:
Somebody Else’s Guy – Jocelyn Brown
Unwritten – Natasha Bedingfield
Livin’ la Vida Loca – Ricky Martin
Flowers – Sweet Female Attitude
No Scrubs – TLC
Band vs DJ: Which is Best for Weddings?
Many couples ask whether they should book a wedding DJ or a live band. The truth? You don’t have to choose. The dream combination is both: a band brings connection and atmosphere to the big moments, while a DJ keeps the party going late with the tracks you love.
What to Consider When Booking Wedding Entertainment
Before you secure your wedding entertainment, ask these key questions:
Planning experience: Is the band professional, organised and easy to work with?
Personalisation: Will they learn your first dance and respect your “do not play” list?
Venue logistics: Does your space suit their set-up? Are there sound restrictions?
Extras: Do they provide lighting, sound engineers, staging or a DJ booth?
💡 Pro tip: For Saturday weddings, book your wedding band 12–18 months in advance.
Don’t Overlook the Flow of Your Wedding Music
One of the most important and often forgotten parts of planning your wedding soundtrack is the flow. Music should seamlessly guide your guests throughout the day: from the aisle walk to drinks, dinner and finally, that first song which gets the dance floor buzzing.
As Tim says: “Get the flow right and the whole day feels effortless.”
Final Thoughts
Your wedding music is more than background noise it’s the heartbeat of your celebration. Whether you dream of a string quartet, a gospel choir, a roaming acoustic band, or a DJ who knows exactly when to drop the perfect track, choosing the right entertainment ensures your wedding feels like you.
So take the time to curate your soundtrack because long after the cake has been eaten and the flowers have faded, it’s the music and the memories it created that your guests will still be talking about.